Is my EX-GF crazy or did I do something wrong? I want her back?!!?

So I was dumped in early March. Since then there has been a bunch of back and forth BS that culimated in her saying that I was immature for not being able to walk away from this. Thing is that I still lover her and she can’t seem to accept that any of our problems stem from her low self-esteem, negative self image and bitterness regarding her place in life right now. She now thinks I am some sort of psycho for saying “hurtful things”, the truth, and I have lost all the cache I had before. Basically, I seem like a pathetic groveler. Her reasons for breaking up range from me not calling her pretty enough, not initiating enough, not getting drunk with her enough, and her not feeling special. She has since recounted all reasons into a plain “we don’t work”. This is true but we don’t work only because she can’t accept any responsibility and considers successful relationships to be “organic” and “holistic”. What can I do to break through?