Divorcees please help..I love this woman and we had an AWESOME relationship...Thanks?

Okay, grow up here. You messed up being needy when what she needed was for you to be strong and supportive. Now your messing up by being needy and not being strong and supportive. If she needs to talk you should shut up and listen. If you would quit making it about you and make it about her. She would be back in your arms soon. If you continue to behave the way you are, she will be in someone elses arms. Your choice.