Does this guy just want to get in my pants?

well, dear, boys will be boys. Do you want him to get in your pants or you want to have a commitment? Ask yourself first. But honey, in my opinion, guys like him don't deserve your time and effort. Look for another man who doesn't really care if he gets in your pants or not. A guy who's smart enough to have a real commitment with you. A guy who has a goal in life, a guy who deserves you.